Giving Effective Feedback - Receptive Climate
Make feedback a priority:
Frame feedback - positive or corrective - as an ongoing process, not an occasional and arbitrary comment.
If people you oversee treat giving feedback as a mere requirement to complete at the time of performance reviews, they will not meet one of your basic expectations.
“Every day, people you work with and those who work for you should know how they’re doing.**
To show that feedback is a large part of your organization’s or team’s culture, you need to set an example and give feedback regularly and visibly.
Do so not in individual disucussions, but in day-to-day actions as well.
Be as open to receiving feedback from your colleagues, including your direct reports, as you are to sharing your observations of their work.
Do not wait for feedback to be offered, particularly if you’re in a leadership role.
Give positive feedback publicly:
Acknowledging positive performance frequently and publicly is a good way to start building a culture of frequent feedback. State explicitly that everyone should follow suit.
When giving positivie feedback, follow these guidelines:
Start small. Don’t assume that only big wins merit discussion. When you see _any** behavior you want to encourage, acknowledge it and express appreciation. Make clear to direct reports and colleagues that it matters even when the little things are done well.
Praise effort, not ability. Praising persistent efforts, even failed attempts, helps build resilience and determination, whereas praising talent and ability results in risk aversion and heightened sensitivity to setbacks. A climate that values effort can increase ability.
Offer some positive feedback - and stop there. Using positive feedback only to cushion the blow before delivering criticism will degrade the value of your praise and render it hollow.
Empower everyone:
Everyone - not only managers - should be part of your culture of feedback.
Address challenges as a group. Establish a mutual commitment among individuals and groups to work on areas that need improvement.
Teach people not to fear identifying where the group is falling short - don’t punish them, chastise them, or ignore their points of view - encourage them to help one another.
Feedback should be oriented to finding solutions collectively, not discussing what’s wrong.
Set clear expectations. Make all work expectations - team and individual goals as well as ongoing assignments - clear and explicit.
Encourage questions. State openly that employees should never be afraid to ask for clarification if either their work expectations or the feedback they’ve received are unclear.
Make it okay to say no. One risk in feedback-rich cultures is that people feel obligated to say “Of course,” when asked “Can I give you some feedback?” Timing your feedback is an important part of the process. The freedom to postpone such conversations ensures that when they happen, all participants are willing parties.
A culture where feedback is valued is, by definition, a vigilant one. But it is the clear-eyed vigilance of a keen and progress-oriented observer, not that of a micromanaging monitor.